People- In General

Why can't people just say what they mean? I mean we always say something to please someone else but we actually mean something else. For example, I have this guy friend. We had been flirting for about a couple of weeks so I thought Hey I should ask him to homecoming. Right? Like totally ok.

So I asked him and he said that "he wasn't a homecoming type of person". But he had never been to homecoming before! So I just let it go and then later in the week he actually confessed that he actually just didn't want to be in a relationship at the moment. I could totally respect that. That made WAY more sense. I myself had just gotten out of a serious relationship and it was okay with me. 

How many times have you said "I'm fine" to someone this week? It could be saying it to anyone. And how many times were you actually fine? Never or not often, right? So why don't we just come out and say how we're actually feeling? Maybe it's just because we don't feel like actually talking to that person about what's going on but some other times it's just reflex. If you have a problem, talk to someone about it. It's good to vent for a bit. 
                                      

I found a quote earlier today, it said, "There's always a little truth behind every 'just kidding,' a little knowledge behind 'I don't know,' a little emotion behind 'I don't care,' and a little pain behind 'It's okay'". 

This is very inspirational to me. Sometimes you just have to lie but I think you should say what you mean. If you're trying to decide what to do with someone, you can still put in your input before taking their side first. I am a total doormat so I do that all the time. 

Closing off, say what you mean!!! If someone wants to know if a shirt looks good on them, they truly want your opinion. So if it looks like crap on them, please be a good friend and tell them. Well I'm leaving you now, until tomorrow. Signing off with a Garfield comic!! I love Garfield!

All About Me

I'm Elana. I'm an artist/music lover/book crazed person/future teacher/current student/writer. 

I'm guessing literally no one is going to look at this blog and that's ok because I'm doing this for me. The idea of talking through a computer and making my ideas permanent fascinates me. I love to write and I want to complain about humanity on here and try to make it better. I'm not saying that all of humanity is going to fail but I think that some things that people do are going to destroy us all. 

This photo expresses exactly how I feel. I work at Taco Bell and there are a lot of angry people that come through there. My dad says that I'm making the world better, one Taco Bell customer at a time. I'm not just going to be talking about humanity, I'm going to be talking about many different things that people do that confuse me which, of course, relates back to humanity. So I don't expect anyone to keep reading but that's ok because I want to do this for me to keep my mind in tact. So if you continue, enjoy!