So I asked him and he said that "he wasn't a homecoming type of person". But he had never been to homecoming before! So I just let it go and then later in the week he actually confessed that he actually just didn't want to be in a relationship at the moment. I could totally respect that. That made WAY more sense. I myself had just gotten out of a serious relationship and it was okay with me.
How many times have you said "I'm fine" to someone this week? It could be saying it to anyone. And how many times were you actually fine? Never or not often, right? So why don't we just come out and say how we're actually feeling? Maybe it's just because we don't feel like actually talking to that person about what's going on but some other times it's just reflex. If you have a problem, talk to someone about it. It's good to vent for a bit.
I found a quote earlier today, it said, "There's always a little truth behind every 'just kidding,' a little knowledge behind 'I don't know,' a little emotion behind 'I don't care,' and a little pain behind 'It's okay'".
This is very inspirational to me. Sometimes you just have to lie but I think you should say what you mean. If you're trying to decide what to do with someone, you can still put in your input before taking their side first. I am a total doormat so I do that all the time.
Closing off, say what you mean!!! If someone wants to know if a shirt looks good on them, they truly want your opinion. So if it looks like crap on them, please be a good friend and tell them. Well I'm leaving you now, until tomorrow. Signing off with a Garfield comic!! I love Garfield!
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